Chapter4

For gosh sakes, try… How many of us have gone completely out of our way to make sure our other half feels special? How often has this feeling been reciprocated? I suppose this chapter could go under give and take, but it has a little subtext.First of all, although I asked how often you are made to feel special in return, please dont think it necessary that you be swept off your feet everyday of your married life,I mean it would be nice, but think about it, if your husband told you every single day that you were so beautiful and gorgeous, it would be nice for a while, but soon it would lose its luster. You’d start to wonder if he meant it or was just saying it to please you. Here’s a fun game for those of you that just have to hear compliments often, everyday you and your spouse think of one great thing about the other, and tell them; the catch, you cant say the same thing twice, it will be a nice way to remind eachother of all the little things that you think are great about eachother. I mean maybe you didn’t know that he thinks its so sexy when you bend over to get to the dust bunnies under the bed. Maybe he doesnt know that you think its cute when he plays board games with the kids, this is game that requires very little effort, but the results will go a long way.