Monday, September 21, 2009

Mr Right Chapter 2

Chapter 2
Ok so you’ve found your nice guy, or at least your are looking. Here's the next piece of crap advice I’ve heard lately, the three date rule, for those not familiar with this rule it means that you should wait until you’ve had three dates before you sleep with someone. Let’s think about this for a second, take a step back; three freaking dates? This could mean that you met someone, accepted a date, saw that person only three more times and then had sex with them, I had more fittings with my wedding dress before it saw me naked!!when did society get in such a rush to have sex? We have so strangled the love and romance out of this most intimate action, that we cant even call it what it is. Think about it, you have three dates, lets say two dinners and a movie, what's that a total of maybe ten hours , & you are now supposed to have sex?!?!? Are you kidding me??now let me ask you, all you people who are going, "are my gosh what a prude" you who say that three dates is plenty, would you be willing to tell this person things like your social security number? Your bank account number? Hell, would you even let them borrow your car? Hell no right,you know why, because you don’t know them, you haven’t built up that trust yet and again to be blunt now you're supposed to sleep with them?? Think about that. We as a society are so hell bent or doing everything faster shorter and with less emotion that we are eliminating our intimate side altogether,. I for one say, just for an experiment, even though you might be dating a nice guy now, how about you wait to have sex until you CAN talk about those extremely personal things, at least give your body as much respect as you give your credit cards!!

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